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I Don't Understand You review
A vacationing American couple mistakenly believe their rural Italian hosts have sinister plans for them.

Review by Eric Hillis

Directed by: Brian Crano, David Joseph Craig

Starring: Nick Kroll, Andrew Rannells, Morgan Spector, Amanda Seyfried, Nunzia Schiano, Eleanora Romandini, Paolo Romano

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There's a popular meme on social media intended to illustrate the difference between the foreign policies of the US under Republican and Democratic administrations. The image representing Republicans shows a plane bearing the US flag dropping a payload of bombs. In the accompanying Democratic image the stars and stripes has been replaced by a rainbow flag. I Don't Understand You, the feature debut of writer/directors and married couple David Joseph Craig and Brian Crano, plays like a sly riff on that interpretation of how liberal Americans view the rest of the world as a less enlightened place populated by primitive people with backwards views.

The movie stars Nick Kroll and Andrew Rannells as Dom and Cole, a married gay couple in the process of trying to adopt an infant child. They've pinned their hopes on surrogate mother Candice (Amanda Seyfried) choosing them as the right couple to become parents to the child she's soon to birth, and while awaiting an answer they fly to Italy to celebrate their anniversary. There some local family friends treat Dom and Cole to an anniversary gift of a private dinner at an exclusive farmhouse restaurant out in the Italian equivalent of the boonies.

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When the hapless pair get their car stuck in mud on the way to the farmhouse, the night rapidly goes downhill. Unable to speak the local language, Dom and Cole find themselves in what they mistakenly believe to be a sinister situation, and the bodies begin to pile up.


I Don't Understand You treads similar ground to the cult horror-comedy Tucker and Dale vs Evil. In that movie the ingrained prejudice of a group of city slickers leads them to assume a pair of affable rednecks are out to murder them. Craig and Crano's film does something similar, with Dom and Cole fearing the worst of the Italian yokels they encounter, assuming they're a bunch of rabid homophobes when they're arguably more progressive than the average American. Much of the comedy comes from Dom and Cole's inability to understand Italian and the audience's advantage of having the language translated for us through subtitles. The words we read contrast wildly with the ignorant assumptions made by the paranoid Dom and Cole, who mistakenly come to believe they're in a life-threatening scenario that they'll only survive by resorting to savagery.

With most of the action playing out within the confines of a farmhouse, I Don't Understand You is essentially a chamber comedy, and the interplay of Kroll and Rannells apes that of classic comic duos like Laurel & Hardy and Abbott & Costello. But the comedy here is of the blackest variety imaginable, with the film's gormless protagonists committing an escalating series of violent atrocities in the belief that they're in a kill-or-be-killed situation.

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Dom and Cole's justification for their actions echoes the sort of "better over there than over her" mentality that makes Americans, and westerners in general, numb to the crimes committed for the dubious purpose of keeping us safe back home. It's the couple's belief that their Italian hosts are inferior and unsophisticated that makes it easier for them to plunge kitchen knives into their backs or whack them across the head with shovels. It's their determination to become parents that fuels Dom and Cole's descent into psychopathy, convincing themselves that being good dads in the future will somehow make up for their crimes.


The idea of being asked to laugh at Americans killing a bunch of locals on foreign soil might understandably prove a turn-off for many potential viewers, but we're very much laughing AT Dom and Cole here rather than WITH them, and it's clear that despite any differences in social attitudes, it's the Americans who are the villains here. The joke is that Dom and Cole are convinced that they're the good guys, that the foreigners they're executing pose a threat to the child to they hope to raise. While Dom and Cole keep telling themselves they'll make great dads, we can only laugh at their delusion given the horrors we witness at their hands.

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That said, by its nature the film puts us in the position of revelling in Dom and Cole's descent into madness, and there are several points where we laugh at the sort of things that we probably should gasp in horror at instead. With so many movies portraying gay characters in a saintly and patronising manner, it's refreshing that a pair of queer filmmakers have made a movie that so loudly states "hey, we can be assholes too."

I Don't Understand You is the very definition of a bad taste comedy, but its most distasteful gag comes in the closing credits: you won't believe who serves as a "consulting producer" on this comedy about Americans murdering people in Italy.

I Don't Understand You is in US/CAN cinemas from June 6th. A UK/ROI release has yet to be announced.

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