 
  A man finds his parents living in his childhood home despite them having
      been killed when he was a boy.
  Review by
        Eric Hillis
  Directed by: Andrew Haigh
  Starring: Andrew Scott, Paul Mescal, Claire Foy, Jamie
    Bell
 
    
  I haven't read Taichi Yamada's 1987 novel 'Strangers', but I have
    seen its enigmatic 1988 cinematic adaptation, director Nobuhiko
    Obayashi's The Discarnates. Obayashi's film veers wildly between a heartbreaking melodrama and a
    horror movie in a way I suspected Andrew Haigh's English language
    reworking would never dare. Likely a symptom of the modern western
    filmmaker's fear of including any elements a cynical audience might consider
    hokey, Haigh has dropped practically all of the original's horror elements
    in order to focus on the melodrama. In doing so, his film is more tightly
    focussed but the final act of this version comes off as jarring as the
    groundwork for its late developments hasn't been laid.
  Andrew Scott plays Adam, a gay screenwriter who lives in a London
    tower block straight out of a Ballard story. Struggling to write a script
    about his childhood, Adam finds that listening to his favourite 1980s pop
    tunes isn't enough to provide inspiration. He decides to visit his suburban
    childhood home, where he is shocked to find his mum (Claire Foy) and
    dad (Jamie Bell) seemingly still alive despite having been killed in
    a car accident when Adam was 12.

  Adam's parents greet him as though he's simply returned after having
    emigrated, commenting on how much he's grown since they last saw him. Rather
    than question his sanity, Adam throws himself into this odd reality he finds
    himself in, taking the opportunity to bond with his parents as an adult in a
    way he never quite could as a child.
  Having never had the opportunity to come out to his parents while they were
    alive, Adam opens up to his mother over tea one afternoon. For her it's
    still the late '80s, and her reaction reflects the ignorance of that era.
    She worries about AIDS, and remarks that "I hear it's a very lonely life."
    Adam assures her that if he's lonely it's not because he's gay, but Scott
    plays the moment in a manner that suggests he doesn't entirely believe his
    own words.

  Adam's lonely life is enlivened when he begins a relationship with Harry
    (Paul Mescal), the only other resident of his tower block. The
    twentysomething Harry may be from what is considered a more progressive
    generation but being gay seems to have caused him just as much loneliness.
    He confesses to being estranged from his family, seems to struggle to find
    love, and has a dangerous self-medicating relationship with drugs and
    alcohol.
  The key theme of The Discarnates was how grief and nostalgia
    can be consumptive and unhealthy. In that film the protagonist slowly turns
    into a zombie the longer he spends in his parents' company. It's rendered
    through some unconvincing make-up, but the allegory works nonetheless. Adam
    doesn't physically deteriorate in the same way and there seems to be no
    downside to his relationship with his parents, which makes their actions
    towards him in the final act seem unnecessarily cruel. The final blood
    soaked twist of the Japanese film worked specifically because its
    protagonist is explicitly characterised as a misanthropic asshole at the
    beginning of the film, becoming a better man thanks to the influence of his
    spectral parents and the troubled neighbour who becomes his lover. Scott's
    Adam is a lovely bloke from the start, which makes the final twist less
    convincing here.

  As its protagonist was a heterosexual man,
    The Discarnates didn't have much to say about the generation
    gap, but Haigh uses Adam's sexuality to interrogate how we look back at less
    enlightened times. Younger generations like to think that if they lived in
    the past they'd still possess today's attitudes. It's a notion Haigh
    dismisses. Adam's parents aren't casually homophobic because they're bad
    people, but simply because they grew up in an era that gave them no reason
    to view homosexuality in a positive light. Their reaction to Adam's
    revelations are cruel, but not willingly so, and in Adam's presence they
    interrogate their own beliefs. The movie's best scene sees Adam's father
    confess that he heard his son's childhood tears and ignored them because he
    couldn't process the idea of his son being gay, only to tearfully ask Adam
    for forgiveness. It's a reminder of the importance of truth and
    reconciliation, a notion that's very untrendy in this modern era of
    reductively writing off anyone whose ideas we disagree with.
  Tellingly, the gay anthems that make up All of Us Strangers' soundtrack are all from the 1980s, an era when it seemed every other
    popstar was openly gay. If things have really gotten better, why are there
    so few gay popstars now? Haigh's film asks us to stop wagging our fingers at
    the past and ask if we're really living in the best version of the
    present.
 
   
